I’m not here


Have you ever wished for less accessibility?  Less opportunities for your boss to contact you in the middle of your vacation; less chances for your ex to send you snap chats; or less possibility of receiving a message from that guy who got your number from a friend and can’t take a hint?  Recently I find myself resenting my iphone.  The anxiety I feel when it’s not sitting right next to me is surprising and I’m beginning to resent the fact that I hear my text noise everywhere I go (thanks for that one iPhone).  I am disappointed by the fact that ignoring a text is considered rude.  I hate the false sense of bravery the screen provides and the off-color comments that come through my device.  I’m disappointed in the dates and break-ups that fit into a limited number of characters on my cell.  Today I’m feeling wonderful but I’m also feeling a yearning for privacy.  I’m wishing for the days when your phone started ringing and you had to guess who was on the other end.  I miss the time before everyone was available 24/7.

Mushroom Soup for the Soul

I truly believe that cooking is good for the soul.  When I’m at my lowest of lows I always seem to find myself in the kitchen measuring out the details of a complicated and intimidating recipe.  There’s something so comforting about dicing an onion, hearing the sizzle as your ingredients fall into a hot pan, and the smell that seeps into your home as your dish comes together.  When things get stressful, you can be certain I’m in my kitchen finding peace in a recipe.

These past two weeks have been full of much soul-searching for me.  And, as is my pattern, I started to cook.  This soup from Smitten Kitchen hit. the. spot.  It was the perfect amount of effort and was forgiving enough that my mind could stray from the recipe while I was cooking.  The earthiness of the mushrooms is amazing and the beef broth is a refreshing change from my normal chicken or veggie stock.

Whether you’re looking for an escape from a too-long-winter or you’re trying to find a way to cope, this recipe hits all the right notes.  I’m already plotting my next soup…  Maybe this one.  Or this oneThis looks amazing as well (and would be much more fitting for the weather in Phoenix right now than a hot soup).


mushroom & barley soup adapted from Smitten Kitchen

  • 1/3 cup dried porcini mushrooms
  • 2 tablespoons olive oil
  • 1 medium onion, diced
  • 1 medium carrot, diced
  • 2 cloves garlic, minced
  • 1 pound mushrooms, sliced to bite-sized pieces (I used a mix of oyster and cremini)
  • 1/2 cup barley
  • 6 cups low sodium or salt-free beef broth
  • 1/4 cup dry sherry
  • 1 tablespoon tomato paste
  • Salt and pepper to taste
  1. Soak your porcini mushrooms in 1 cup of boiling water and set aside while you prep the rest of the soup
  2. Heat oil in a large pot and add your onion and carrot.  Saute for 10-15 minutes until your onions begin to brown.  Add the garlic and saute for 30 seconds (until it becomes fragrant).  Add the mushrooms and cook for an additional 5 minutes – until the begin to release their juices!
  3. Add your barley and toast until it begins to take on a bit of color.  Pour in your broth, sherry, and tomato paste.  Bring to a boil then simmer for 45 minutes until the barley is cooked through.
  4. Add salt and pepper to taste.  Serve with parmesan for extra deliciousness.

What I’ve Been Reading…

I recently started spending a lot of time with someone who loves to read. I’ve always been an avid reader but I absolutely read in waves. Sometimes I’ll take in 5 books in a month then I won’t read anything for a year.  Generally reading a book that I don’t like is what sparks the drought.

However, being with someone who has a passion for reading encourages you to power past the not-so-great books and keep searching for the ones that have an impact on you.  I’m always looking for recommendations so I thought I’d share some of my most recent reads with you.


1) Stiff – I was SO INTO THIS BOOK.  I read it really quickly and was surprised at how much I enjoyed it.  Mary Roach delves into the world of human cadavers and the various ways they are used (or disposed of).  Not only was this book incredibly eye-opening (I had no idea there were so many uses for us once we kicked the bucket), but also hilarious.  Roach has such an approachable style of writing and I found myself running through pages and laughing out loud at her footnotes.

2) Bossypants – I think everyone has recommended this book.  I thought it was a really great read but it left me wanting a bit more of a cohesive story.  I felt like the chapters jumped pretty abruptly from subject to subject and while I thoroughly enjoyed reading about Tina Fey’s life, I wish it was just a bit more focused.  I’d still recommend it as a total girl-power, success-story book.

3) Pulp – THIS WAS TOO GOOD!  I bought it because I loved the cover (I do this a lot…) and was not disappointed by the story.  Charles Bukowski creates a surprisingly seamless story that centers around a drunk private detective and manages to include aliens and other surreal elements without writing a cheesy story.  The writing is simple to digest and this is yet another quick read.  I can’t wait to read more of his work.

4) All Marketers are Liars – I always try to mix in business and marketing books.  Seth Godin is a genius and I feel like I learn so much every time I read his books.  If you’re a business owner or a marketer, this book is a must read.  Godin breaks down some pretty revolutionary marketing concepts then teaches you the best practices for using them.

So what about you?  Read anything good recently?  You can follow me on good reads to see other books I’ve read and reviewed (it might just help you stock your bookshelf).

101 Goals for 1001 Days (87)

I came across this somewhat unique goal setting idea on some other blogs and was completely inspired.  I’m big on goal-setting and I think that the time that has gone by without working towards a goal in my life has been wasted.  I love the flexibility of this list and I’m excited to start tackling these.  You may notice some repeat goals from those I set on my birthday but I wanted to include them because the timeline overlaps :)!!

My start date for this challenge was 1.11.14 so a few goals are already in progress.  I’m still working on coming up with the remainder of my goals but I think I’ve got a pretty solid start.  I’ll be updating and blogging as I chug along.  Any recommendations for things I should/could add to my list?


Take a family portrait

Call my grandparents once a month (1/34)

Send out Thanksgiving cards to people who have made an impact in my life

Go out a few times a month.  Meet new people.  Conquer that introverted social anxiety.

Send out Valentines day cards (2014)

Send my friends cards for their birthdays (set reminders on calendar for these!)

Go on a date (or two)

Go on a hike with my mom

Learn to build a piece of furniture with my dad

Take a photography class with my dad

Ride motorcycles with Sean

Go shooting with Sean

Go to a football game with Brock

Take a mixology class with Brock

Take a cooking class with my mom

Run or walk a 5k with my mom


Learn to cook orange chicken

Make a big batch of savory jam and gift it

Master a difficult-to-create dessert (macarons?)

Learn to make kick-ass bread (both sourdough and rye)

Try acupuncture

Talk to a therapist or life coach

Take a cooking class in a foreign country (France?  Spain?  Argentina?)

Learn how to bake & ice the perfect cake

Find a way to work out that makes you happy

Read a book about the science behind baking/cooking

Learn how to properly sharpen a knife

Make and use my own chicken, beef, and vegetable stocks

Learn to make an excellent cocktail

Make one new cocktail every week for 52 weeks (3/52)


Move away from Phoenix

Drive to the country and go star-gazing for a night

Walk a total of 1000 miles through the duration of this project (20/1000)

Watch 100 Ted Talks (5/100)

Take a tango class

Go to Sears Tower (I refuse to call this Willis Tower….)

Visit 6 new cities (1/6) [cottonwood 2.2014]

Print all of my pictures

Shoot a gun

Host a kick-ass party

Take a pole-dancing class

Take a photography class

Gamble in Vegas

Take an art class

Learn to sew a quilt

Learn to fair isle knit

Go to the International Balloon Festival in Albuquerque

Visit the Phoenix Art Museum

Go to a strip club

Sew a quilt with my tee shirts from high school

Read 10 books (1, 2, 3, 4, )

Finish knitting my mom’s throw

Go to 5 concerts (or shows in dive bars) (0/5)

Do 5 DIY’s from my Pinterest board (0/5)

Buy or make a headboard

Eat at 50 new restaurants (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, )

Paint a picture (2.2014)

Go on a picnic

Do a cartwheel on the beach

Photograph my apartment

Go to a drive-in movie

Clean up my Facebook friend list

Brush up on my calligraphy skills & use them to make cards for 10 friends (0/10)

Knit a blanket with yarn I spun by myself

Take a weekend trip to Sedona (Feb. 8, 2014)

Take a weekend trip to Prescott

Take a weekend trip to LA

Pet a giraffe


Learn to use In Design

Learn to use Illustrator

Start a floral subscription service

Take a floral design class (Feb. 1, 2014)

Create a Kickstarter for Hoot & Holler

Go to Alt Design Summit

Be the florist for a wedding

Host a floral workshop (May 1!!!)

Style an event

Make 25 flower crowns to brush up on my skillz (3/25)

Pick up three social media clients for my freelance life (1/3)

Finish the curriculum for and teach my Social Media 101 class

Write 200 blog posts (2/200)

Write and deliver a speech


Start a 401k

Spend only cash for 1 month

Save $15,000

Go one month without buying any new clothing or jewelry (April 2014)

Create a specific budget and stick to it for at least a year

Invest some of my money

Set a budget for Christmas gifts and actually stick to it